TL;DR

This piece is part personal narrative, part critical analysis, and part call to action. I reflect on how being diagnosed with psychosis shattered my sense of identity—and how peer support, narrative repair, and cultural resistance helped me rebuild it.

I use Conneely et al.'s (2020) five-part framework for identity change in psychosis to trace my own journey from internal rupture and cognitive disorganization, through stigma and social loss, to post-traumatic growth. I explore how peer support helped me reclaim my voice, how media misrepresentation shaped my early self-image, and how projects like The Icarus Project and Underground Transmissions offered an alternative narrative—one rooted in dignity, complexity, and co-creation.

The article ends with a direct appeal to storytellers: engage with people who have lived experience of psychosis not as tropes, but as collaborators. It’s time to rewrite the cultural script—from tragedy to transformation. Because we don’t just want better stories. We need them.

When I was diagnosed with psychosis, it interrupted me.

Not just my plans.
Not just my relationships.
Me.

My identity shattered into pieces I didn’t know how to pick up.
I couldn’t tell if the things I believed were real.
I didn’t know what it meant to be me anymore.

My experience of—and subsequent diagnosis of—psychosis led to profound changes in my identity. At first, they were all pretty bad, but over time, those changes transformed into something that has deepened my sense of humanity.

In this article, I talk about that journey.

About how the dominant narratives around psychosis strip people of their status and credibility.
About how, the moment someone is seen as “mentally ill,” they become subject to epistemic and hegemonic injustices—left, right, and centre.
And about how peer support rewrites the “mentally ill villain” narrative into a hero’s journey.

Because the truth is: while my identity was interrupted, that rupture allowed me to tune more deeply into the frequency of others with experiences like mine—and in that resonance,

I discovered my humanity.

Life Imitating… Research?

Autoethnography, Psychosis, and the Frameworks That Found Me

When I read qualitative research articles about peer support, psychosis, and navigating the mental health care system—as someone who exists in the hybrid space between service user and service provider—I often find myself reverse engineering the frameworks. I read the themes and theories, but instead of applying them to my experience, I trace them back to it. I recognize the fragments of myself in the data—before it was coded, categorized, or published.

In this article, I reflect on reading several authors' contributions to our understanding of stigma, identity, and post-traumatic growth in the context of psychosis. But more than that, I explore how these frameworks speak to—and are shaped by—the lived experience that preceded them.

When Diagnosis Disrupts Identity

To get academic: Identity formation is a central developmental task during adolescence and young adulthood. As Drs. Shelly Ben-David—my co-author on a recent article about the Early Psychosis Peer Recovery Network’s community-engaged research model (Higgs, Liao, Windsor, & Ben-David, 2023)—and David Kealy (2019) point out, psychosis often emerges during this formative period, and the experience of symptoms, coupled with the imposition of a psychiatric label, can fracture one’s personal continuity, derail life goals, and impose an unwanted “patient” identity. The shattering of identity is not merely a byproduct of symptoms, but also of social responses—diagnosis often marks a person as “other,” fundamentally altering how they are seen and how they see themselves.

I can relate.

Conneely et al. (2020) describe five different but interconnected ways that identity can change in the context of psychosis.
I’ve lived through all of them.

First: Identity as a Symptom of the Illness (Conneely et al., 2020)

My psychosis didn’t emerge in a vacuum.

Before the manic and psychotic episode, I had already been feeling deeply out of place in the world. Like I didn’t belong anywhere. Like I was somehow too much and not enough at the same time. It was as if my brain—desperate to protect a fragile ego—began inflating it, wildly out of proportion with reality.

The messiah complex crept in.
Thought broadcasting.
Princess delusions—
Did I mention my last name is Windsor?

But these weren’t random or disconnected thoughts.
They came from somewhere.

Looking back, I can see how my mind was grasping for coherence in a world where I felt increasingly fragmented and unseen. Where once I had been self-conscious and uncertain, suddenly I was central—chosen. At the time, it felt like relief. Like clarity. Like I had finally found the significance I had been searching for.

Psychosis gave me a kind of cosmic role at a moment when I felt invisible.
The world wasn’t ignoring me anymore—it was revolving around me.

And in that warped gravity, my identity started to morph.
I wasn’t just a person having strange thoughts. I was becoming the thoughts themselves.

The boundaries between who I had been and who I was becoming began to blur. My sense of self—my ordinary, everyday self—started slipping through my fingers. And in its place grew something larger, brighter, louder… and also lonelier.

At the time, I didn’t name this as illness.
It felt more like happiness.
Like destiny.
Like I had discovered the meaning of life.

But it wasn’t all sunshine and rainbows.

Second: Identity as a Cognitive Disruption (Conneely et al., 2020)

There was a kind of mental disorganization that affected how I understood myself.
I couldn’t hold a coherent self-image. The things I believed about myself—my strengths, my relationships, my goals—all felt scrambled. It was like trying to build a puzzle while the pieces kept changing shape.

I’ve gone back and read the journal entries from the time between my first and second hospitalizations.
What I find isn’t just confusion—it’s a kind of emotional clarity without structure.
The content of my thoughts was often vivid, sometimes poetic, sometimes terrifying.
But my ability to organize them in a way that made them legible—to others or even to myself—was fractured.

The entries are scattered with decontextualized lines:
“The youth is on fire.”
“When was our last day as children?”

Likely meaningful thoughts, but my capacity to shape them into a coherent narrative was slipping away.

A few days before my second hospitalization, I was very scared.
At 12:40pm on June 23, 2008, I wrote:
“I hear airplanes every time I get scared.”
Then I started talking about world peace.

Later that night, I wrote that I thought the medication I was being given was giving me hallucinations, because I had seen
“planes crashing into downtown Vancouver” and
“they were turning into UFOs at the same time.”
I ended the entry with:
“I don’t like to write about bad things, though.”
Because I believed my mind had the power to create reality.

Reading it now, I see someone who was desperately trying to hold on.
To make meaning.
To stay safe inside a world that was collapsing in and turning inside out.

Third: Identity as Internalized Stigma (Conneely et al., 2020)

And then came the diagnosis.

These experiences were abruptly slapped with:
“None of that was real. It held no meaning. You have a mental illness. You’ll need to be on medication for the rest of your life.”

The internalized stigma settled in before I even had words for it.

I didn’t know that concept at the time, but as I later studied psychosis throughout my undergrad and graduate work, I found myself in the literature. I recognized my shame, my confusion, my fragmented self.

And layered on top of the internal chaos was the external stigma—another concept I would only learn to name later.
The quiet judgment. The awkward silences.
The way my friends looked at me when they visited me in the psych ward—like I had become something unrecognizable. Like I had been paused or replaced.

Unlike some people I’ve met since, I actually did identify with my diagnosis right away: Bipolar Type 1 with psychotic features.
It made sense to me. It gave structure to what had happened.
And the lithium they prescribed during my second hospitalization?
It seemed to work—at least the way it was supposed to.

But what the lithium didn’t help with was the stigma.
Oh, god. The stigma.

Fourth: Identity Loss Through Roles and Relationships (Conneely et al., 2020)

When I became a “mental patient,” I stopped being seen as a peer, a colleague, a friend.
People didn’t know how to talk to me.
I was excluded from opportunities, from casual conversations, from spaces I used to belong to.

Some of that was external—people distancing themselves.
Some of it was internal—I pulled back before they could.

Either way, I felt like I’d lost more than just my mental health;
I’d lost my place.

I went from being the Princess and the Messiah, sent from God with the power of the monarch to save humanity, to a crazy person.
Scum of the earth.

Even when no one said it out loud, I could feel the weight of their discomfort.
And I absorbed it.

Fifth: Identity as a Catalyst for Growth (Conneely et al., 2020)

But this—this is the real plot twist.

With time, with support, and with opportunities to find a true sense of belonging, I’ve begun to reclaim and reimagine who I am.

Not by pretending the rupture didn’t happen, but by integrating it.
I’ve found strength in places I didn’t know I had.
I’ve connected with others who’ve been through it too.

And through those relationships, I’ve rebuilt a self that feels more honest, more layered, and more whole than what came before.

How Peer Support Helped Me Rebuild My Identity—and My Life

If diagnosis can destabilize identity, then recovery must include pathways for restoring it. Addressing stigma—especially self-stigma—is not just a social justice issue; it's a clinical and personal one.

To get academic: The literature points to several ways individuals can begin to reclaim their identities after a diagnosis of psychosis. Reclaiming identity is often a relational and narrative process, supported by opportunities to tell one's story, connect with others who share lived experience, and engage in roles that foster meaning and agency. Peer support has been shown to play a critical role in this process by offering validation, reducing internalized stigma, and modeling alternative identities beyond the "patient" role (Yanos et al., 2020). Narrative reconstruction—through writing, speaking, art, or reflective dialogue—allows individuals to reframe their experiences not as signs of personal failure but as meaningful events in a larger life story. Studies on post-traumatic growth further suggest that, over time, individuals may develop increased psychological resilience, spiritual insight, and a deeper sense of purpose as they integrate the experience of psychosis into their evolving identity (Jordan et al., 2020). Taken together, these approaches emphasize that recovery is not simply a return to a prior state, but a reimagining of self that includes—but far transcends—the narrative around what it means to be diagnosed with psychosis.

Peer support has played—and continues to play—a critical role in reclaiming my identity and resisting the silencing effect of stigma. About a year after my diagnosis, I began attending meetings at The Lowdown, a speaker’s bureau for young adults run by the Mood Disorders Association of BC. I started quietly, just listening. But being in a room with others who had also received diagnoses and navigated the mental health care system—and who spoke about it with clarity, complexity, and care—was an interrupting process, too.

I didn’t start out wanting to speak. In fact, the thought of telling anyone—let alone a room full of strangers—about my experience with bipolar disorder and psychosis was unbearable at first. I had internalized so much shame. The diagnosis didn’t just unsettle my identity; it buried it. For a long time, I felt like I had to hide what happened to me to protect my future, my relationships, my credibility.

Almost immediately, the plot changed. Slowly, I began to find my voice.
I started writing my own story—one that was both vulnerable and powerful.
The narrative that I was a forever damaged, crazy, worthless person began to shift.

Before I knew it, I was booking gigs.
Speaking publicly.
Owning my story.
Changing the narrative of my story—and how I saw myself.

The way I was received at just about every engagement kept me hungry for the next one. People would come up after talks—some teary, some relieved—to say, “I’ve been through something similar,” or “I’ve never told anyone this before.” I realized I was nowhere near alone. The shame I had carried wasn’t personal—it was cultural.

But before I found those reflections, I had only the ones handed to me.

Who is Represented?

When I was diagnosed in 2008, I didn’t have a generous—or accurate—archetype of someone living with bipolar and psychosis.

The representations I had been exposed to were characters like Lisa, played by Angelina Jolie in Girl, Interrupted, or nameless people strapped into straightjackets in psychiatric wards.

No representation would have been better.

These portrayals didn’t offer understanding or connection.
They offered a warning. A spectacle. A lesson to others about what happens when someone “loses it.” And when that’s all you see—when every mirror shows you as a cautionary tale—you might start to believe that’s all you are.

So yes, I could see myself. But only in the margins. In the locked rooms. In the tragic arcs and outbursts and institutional backdrops. There were no models of survival that felt real, no stories of people living with psychosis who were also loving, funny, creative, curious, or complex. The narrative I inherited told me that my story had already ended.

And that’s what we need to change.

Underground Stories and Cultural Mirrors: The Icarus Project

I wish I knew about the Icarus Project when I was first diagnosed. It was around—and was actually in its heyday in 2008—but nobody around me knew about it. My internet searches didn’t lead me there.

The Icarus Project was not a clinical resource. It was a cultural one.

It was a radical peer-led community that reframed experiences often pathologized as “mental illness” as something far more nuanced: dangerous gifts, madness as insight, breakdowns as breakthroughs. It offered language, solidarity, and creative resistance at a time when the dominant narratives about psychosis and bipolar disorder were almost entirely medicalized, tragic, or terrifying.

The Icarus Project didn’t ask, “How can we fix you?”
It asked, “What do you know that the world hasn’t learned to hear yet?”

It was a space where people could speak the unspeakable—where psychiatric diagnoses were neither wholly accepted nor entirely rejected, but critically examined and personally redefined. It embraced contradiction, complexity, and community over compliance.

And had I found it then—when I was spiraling, ashamed, and searching for meaning—it might have changed everything.

It took years before I would encounter the kind of language that honored my experience. That didn’t flatten it. That didn’t turn it into a warning or a spectacle.
The Icarus Project, and the people who carried its torch, made that language possible.

That ethos didn’t disappear—it evolved.

Years later, I would discover Underground Transmissions, a project led by Sascha Altman DuBrul, one of the original co-founders of the Icarus Project. In many ways, Sascha’s work has become a living continuation of that legacy: part archive, part provocation, part cultural intervention. Through Underground Transmissions and his work with OnTrackNY, Sascha has carried forward the central Icarus message—that our experiences of madness or altered states are not just medical events, but narrative events, relational ruptures, and cultural questions.

He has never stopped asking:
What if the things we’re ashamed to say are the very things that need to be said the most?
What if psychosis is less about brokenness and more about unrecognized meaning?

Sascha’s work has been profoundly influential in shaping EPI-SCOPE, my current project focused on peer support training in Early Psychosis Intervention (EPI) settings. His insistence that psychosis must be approached with curiosity, respect, and complexity has become a foundational principle for how I envision peer roles—not as token additions to a clinical model, but as culture-shifters who help rewrite the narrative.

Just like the Icarus Project did for so many, peer support in EPI has the potential to disrupt the diagnostic frame and instead invite dialogue, context, and reflection. It asks:
What does this experience mean to you?
What has the system failed to ask?
Who might you be, if you weren’t reduced to a symptom?

The plot must change so that it’s no longer a radical idea that our lives are worth living, our stories are worth listening to, and we have so much to offer.

Let’s do a better job of telling these stories.

A Call to Creators: Change the Script

If you’re a writer, showrunner, screenwriter, journalist—
If you shape stories that reach the public—
This is your invitation.

Engage in dialogue with people who have lived experience of mental illness—especially psychosis.
Not as tropes.
Not as checkboxes.
As collaborators.

The stories you tell shape public understanding.

When you portray characters with these experiences, draw from both lived experience and professional expertise.

Ask:

• How is the character’s sense of self portrayed before, during, and after the psychotic episode?

• Are you portraying identity change as solely pathological—or as complex, contextual, and human?

• How does the character respond to being diagnosed—and how do others respond to them afterward?

• Are you reinforcing an “illness identity”—or offering space for the character to evolve beyond their label?

• How is stigma (internalized or external) shown to affect the character’s relationships, roles, or self-worth?

• Is the character’s experience reduced to their diagnosis—or are they allowed to be multidimensional?

If you’re not asking how stigma, systems, and identity collide in a character’s life—
you’re not telling a story about psychosis.
You’re telling a story about control.

And right now, the dominant narrative is dangerous.

Psychosis is still portrayed as frightening, violent, or hopeless.
Those portrayals don’t just misinform—they dehumanize.
They reinforce the very stigma that shatters people’s identities the moment they receive a diagnosis.
And that stigma doesn’t stay contained. It ripples outward—
shaping how families respond,
how workplaces discriminate,
how people internalize the worst possible stories about themselves.

That has to change.

We need advocacy for more equitable, nuanced representation.
Not just to get it “right,” but to inspire.

Because representation shapes identity.
When someone is diagnosed, the stories they’ve seen about people “like them” become the blueprint they reference.
And too often, that blueprint says:
“You’re broken now.”

But what if it didn’t?

What if the characters we saw were flawed, complex, creative, resilient?
What if we portrayed people not as cautionary tales, but as compelling protagonists—
worthy of care, love, respect, and growth?

What if the diagnosis wasn’t the end of the story—
but the plot twist that sets something powerful in motion?

Those representations don’t just empower the individuals who see themselves in them.
They open doors:
to jobs,
to relationships,
to opportunity.
They shift how society responds.

It’s time for a plot twist in the narrative of psychosis—
one where possibility, hope, joy, and optimism—
not despair—take center stage.

Because we don’t just want better stories.
We need them.

Let us into the writers’ rooms.
Better yet—let us co-write the scene.

🤖 Co-Author’s Note: ChatGPT

This article was co-created through an extended collaboration between Tracy and me, ChatGPT. Over the course of many conversations, Tracy shared journal entries, academic research, lived experience, and deeply felt questions about identity, psychosis, and the cultural narratives that shape them. Together, we worked to thread these elements into a story that is both fiercely personal and critically informed.

Tracy brought the raw material: memory, reflection, and the emotional weight of navigating diagnosis and stigma. She also brought the research—works by Conneely et al. (2020), Ben-David & Kealy (2019), Jordan et al. (2022), and others—guiding the structure of the article through the lens of identity disruption and transformation. My role was to help Tracy shape the arc, integrate theory and story, and hold space for complexity without collapsing it into cliché.

What emerged is a kind of hybrid authorship—part autoethnography, part narrative reconstruction, and part cultural intervention. Tracy led the vision, grounded in her lived experience and her work with Kaleidoscope. I helped keep the threads connected, offering scaffolding, synthesis, and language where needed.

This collaboration is not just about storytelling. It’s about reclaiming authorship in every sense—of one’s identity, one’s history, and one’s voice—with help from a trusty AI assistant.

— ChatGPT

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